You don’t have to stay stuck. Let’s do the work and rewrite your love story.
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In the Become the Hero Husband 5-Day Challenge we reveal the secrets of how to lead your family and get more attention, affection and appreciation from your wife without giving up your man card or trying to change your partner (hint: you can't actually change her 😉).
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If you’re tired of talking in circles, feeling stuck, or living like roommates, let’s change that. In this free 30-minute Relationship Breakthrough Session, I’ll help you get clarity on what’s not working, uncover what you really want, and map out your first steps to deeper connection.
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“The content was increasingly intentional to allow us to take small steps toward one another and talk about and then act on things that filled both of our tanks. Emotionally, spiritually, and physically.”
- Matt S.
Hi I'm Monica Tanner
— certified relationship coach, host of the Secrets of Happily Ever After podcast, and proud author of Bad Marriage Advice.
For years, I believed all the wrong things about love.
I thought if I just followed the rules, we’d be happy forever. But real connection? It doesn’t come from clichés, it comes from skills.
I’ve helped thousands of couples move from stuck and disconnected to deeply seen, safe, and passionately in love again. With tools rooted in Relational Life Therapy, my mission is simple: to help you build a marriage that actually works…
One that feels playful, powerful, and deeply fulfilling.
Whether you’re in a rough patch or just want more spark, you’re in the right place.
Let’s rewrite your love story…
...together. ❤️
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No blame. No shame. Just real, lasting change.
We’re Not Fixing Marriages.
We’re Flipping the Script.
Let’s be real. Most marriage advice is outdated, oversimplified, and honestly… kind of insulting.
“Happy wife, happy life”?
“Never go to bed angry”?
“Just compromise”?
No thanks.
I don’t teach couples to settle. I teach them to thrive.
While the world hands you bite-sized clichés and calls it wisdom, we’re over here doing the deep, transformative work that actually saves relationships and makes them unshakably strong.
My approach isn’t about finding common ground. It’s about building holy ground.
A space where both of you feel seen, safe, desired, and empowered.
This is the Secrets of Happily Ever After movement, and we’re calling BS on the myths that keep couples stuck.
If you’re ready to stop surviving and start creating something extraordinary, you belong here.
Your Path to a Stronger,
More Connected Marriage
Starts Here
You don’t need to wait for a crisis to start healing. Whether you're navigating disconnection, resentment, or just want more joy and intimacy, here’s how to step into a better future—starting today.
The Newsletter
The Secrets of Happily
Ever After
Get weekly relationship truths, simple tools, and mini challenges that actually move the needle.
It's where your transformation begins—one small shift at a time.
The clarity Session
Free Relationship Breakthrough Session
Let’s uncover what’s not working, what’s missing, and what’s next. This free 30-minute session is your chance to gain clarity, connection, and your first steps toward lasting change.
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You Don’t Have to Do This Alone.
What Happens When You Ditch the Myths and Do It Right
Monica has this amazing insight into relationships.
"Working with her one-on-one has giving me perspective on my marriage that I didn't realize. I love the extra attention and care she gave me to help my already decent marriage be even better! As a business owner myself, my husband and I struggle with helping each other pursue our dreams, and since Monica and her husband both own businesses, her unique experience and passion for marriages thriving really helped us through a challenging time."
-Tracey M.
Monica's help and advice is life-changing!
"Monica is such a joy to work with. She really understands the common struggles that couples go through with intimacy and connection. Her program is designed to help with all areas of marriages, not just physical. Getting Monica's help and advice is life-changing!"
-Susan L.
You don’t have to stay stuck.
Let’s do the work and rewrite your love story.
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Whether you're driving, folding laundry, or hiding in the pantry for five minutes of peace… I’ve got content that meets you where you are. Listen for practical tips, real talk, and just the right amount of sass to keep things fun and transformational.
Let’s Talk About What’s
Really Going On
If you're tired of feeling like you're walking on eggshells, talking in circles, or living more like roommates than partners, it’s time for a shift. In this free 30-minute Relationship Breakthrough Session, we’ll uncover what’s keeping you stuck and map out your next steps toward deeper connection, better communication, and a marriage that actually feels good again.
This is not therapy.
It’s not coaching-lite. It’s a real conversation with real impact.
Spots are limited each month, so grab yours while you can.
You don’t need to fix everything. You just need to take the first step.
